Lust & Found
Reclaiming desire for women in perimenopause, menopause, and post-menopause.
A masterclass to help you understand what’s changing in your body and your relationships through the menopausal transition and guide you back to your desire.
21 September | 8pm CET | Online
“I just don’t feel desire anymore”.
As a menopause coach, this is one of the most common things I hear from women in perimenopause, menopause and post-menopause.
So I created this masterclass to help you get it back.
If you've noticed your libido has flatlined. If sex has started to feel like a performance, obligation, or something that belongs to a younger version of you. If you miss feeling turned on, not just physically, but alive in your body and in your life, then this is for you.
It is especially for you if part of you suspects there might be more available to you than you’ve been told.
(#spoileralert you are absolutely right!)
Because desire is not just about sex, it’s intrinsically connected to your life force.
This is going to be practical, but don’t worry, it will not be awkward or weird.
We're going to talk about the science of arousal, what's happening hormonally, why desire shifts in this season, and the supplements and medications that genuinely help.
It's also going to go deeper than that. We'll look at the social conditioning that shaped your relationship to desire, probably long before menopause ever entered the picture, and the tools, mindsets and practices that begin to unwind it.
Let’s Go Find Our Desire
Everyone who registers receives a free gift: my menopause mapping tool, to help you understand exactly where you are in this transition.
Date: 21 September 2026
Time: 8pm–9pm CEST + live Q&A
Where: Online on Zoom
A recording will be sent to everyone who joins so don’t worry if you can’t make it live.
The Map to Show Us the Way
5 chapters to guide us on this journey to Lust & Found
Chapter 1
The Science of Desire
Chapter 2
The Conditioning Unwind
Chapter 3
Pharmaceutical & Supplement Toolkit
Chapter 4
Authentically YOU
Chapter 5
Desire as a life force
"A relaxed safe atmosphere with sensitive topics being explored with humility, gentle humour and wisdoms earned through life experience. Tanya's vitality, authenticity and loving nature shine."
STEPHANIE, 58
"If you need a very practical understanding of what self-love is, Tanya will give you very easy tools that don't require sheepskin, incense, and effort."
MAIA, 46
"This masterclass was amazing. It gave me a lot of awareness, excellent insights and really fantastic tools and practices."
HOLLY, 47
Your Guide
I’m Tanya. I'm a coach, author and guide with 20+ years of experience supporting women through deep personal and relational change.
I’ve spent the last 15 years studying menopause, and I know in my body, not just theory, that the second half of life can be the most alive, truthful, and powerful - almost the exact opposite of all the BS we’ve been told!
Much of my background is in sexuality, so I have a strong bias towards initiating women into their sexual prime, which I believe comes in the second half. Many women believe their sexuality disappears in the second half, Lust & Found is a class to help you discover it.
I can’t wait to share it with you. TKx
The work we're doing together isn't just about getting desire back.
I mean, it is. But it is also much bigger than that. It is about activating our life force and giving ourselves permission to be in this world as sexual beings.
Most Important:
I would love if you could hold this as the frame around your missing desire:
What if you are a woman whose desire is just hiding and is waiting to be found?
What if you are a woman who is about to enter her sexual prime?
This what Lust & Found is about.